Prepare a special sex box for the wedding. Fill it with a lingerie set that gives you Beyoncé energy, a pair of handcuffs, special lube, and a vibrator. On your big night, cuff your new spouse’s wrists behind their neck (comfortably, like when they’re resting their head on their hands) and slowly lube up the area(s) you’re gonna play with. (Vibes can be magic for: clits, perineums, penis shafts, around the anus, asses.) Don’t go right in—tease them a little ’til they really, really want it.
SHOP NOW Bra and Garter Set, $50, Adam & Eve
SHOP NOWAwaken Clitoral Stimulating Gel, $23.79, Wicked Sensual Care
SHOP NOW Maze Thin Cuffs, $45, Babeland
SHOP NOW We-Vibe Touch X Vibrator, $99, Good Vibes