If you like the feeling of a lubed-up penis or dildo rubbing your clit, try riding high. “The penetrating partner ‘rides high’ by rubbing their penis against the clitoris to enhance stimulation,” says Barbara Santini, sex and relationship advisor at Giejo. You can ride high with or without penetration. If it’s internal stim you crave, try riding low. “The receiver opens their legs wider, allowing the penetrating partner to stimulate their internal hot spots using their penis or dildo head.”
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