Whether you learned about it while watching Fifty Shades of Grey, reading an erotic book or perusing different (ethical!) porn options, chances are you know something about BDSM because, hi, it’s a major umbrella of sexuality. So major, in fact, that even if you’re not a kinkster, there’s probably something for you by way of BDSM sex toys. Sure, bondage and blindfolds are one thing, but it’s the oft-overlooked nipple clamps that can truly change your sexcapades. Nipple toys and clamps are great for seamlessly bridging the gap from vanilla sex to light BDSM, so let’s get into it, shall we?
While the name is pretty self-explanatory (its main use is pinching or clamping your nips), sexologist Carol Queen, PhD, says nipple clamps are “also very useful for hands-free nipple play.” Oh, and did we mention that clamps are also hella versatile? Different kinds of clamps can provide different sensations, from subtle pinches to full-on Dom/sub torture. Take feathery clamps, for example. Not only are they fun from a dress-up perspective, but they’re also great for adding some light teasing and tickling. Here are a few of our faves to whet your appetite (pun most definitely intended).
Our top picks for best nipple clamps in 2023:
No matter what you’re looking for, there’s likely to be a nipple clamp perfect for your mood, experience level, and kink preference. Read on for all our fave clamps, as well as expert tips on how to use nipple clamps safely and effectively.
1. Lovehoney Tease Me Adjustable Nipple Clamps
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Lovehoney Tease Me Adjustable Nipple Clamps
best tweezer nipple clamps
Lovehoney Tease Me Adjustable Nipple Clamps
Pros
- approachable and easy to adjust
Cons
- may not work as well on larger nipples
If you’re new to nipple play, then these are the best beginner tweezer clamps to help you begin your journey, trust. The “tweezer” on each end is tipped in soft silicone for comfort (you may find pain to be pleasurable, but open scratches and cuts are usually best avoided), and there’s a slider on each clamp that allows you to easily adjust the tightness. You can even throw in the matching clit clamp if you wanna make it a set.
THE REVIEW: According to one tester, “These are super good for beginners. They are really easy to use and adjust so you can find the perfect amount of pressure. They absolutely heighten orgasms! The silicone is really soft, too. Sometimes they can be a bit fiddly to put on and adjust, but once they’re in the right spot they are great.”
2. Bondage Boutique Adjustable Tweezer Nipple Clamps
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Bondage Boutique Adjustable Tweezer Nipple Clamps
best nipple clamps with chain
Bondage Boutique Adjustable Tweezer Nipple Clamps
Pros
- don’t lose grip, even when pressure is applied
Cons
- can be a lil tricky to adjust
Nipple clamps with a chain are great if you want to add another layer of sensation and tension, as you can tug on the chain connecting the nipple clamps for added stimulation—fun! These tweezer-style clamps come with PVC-coated tips (so you can enjoy all the pressure of nipple play without any marks afterward), as well as a lightweight metal connecting chain measuring 20 inches.
THE REVIEW: “These are great, easy to use, and they actually stay on (unlike other products),” one review reads. “They are a little tricky to adjust if you’ve used lube, but the capability to tighten them is fantastic. A tug on the chain is all you need to take things to the next level.”
3. Fifty Shades of Grey The Pinch Adjustable Nipple Clamps
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Fifty Shades of Grey The Pinch Adjustable Nipple Clamps
best weighted nipple clamps
Fifty Shades of Grey The Pinch Adjustable Nipple Clamps
Pros
- metal beads adds perfect weight
Cons
- can slip off a bit too easily
Wanna kick things up a notch? Try a pair of weighted nipple clamps. This tweezer-style pair includes soft, silicone-coated tips, as well as a not-too-heavy string of metal weights that’ll create a gentle tugging sensation both newbies and experts can appreciate.
THE REVIEW: “This was my first time using nipple clamps and I am hooked,” writes one buyer. “I have quite large nipples and it took a few attempts for me to get them sitting right, but when they were on, they stayed put. The slider lets you control your pain level, and the silver balls at the bottom are slightly weighted, and in certain positions, this creates an awesome tugging sensation. Well worth a try!”
4. CalExotics First Time Fetish Nipple Teasers
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CalExotics First Time Fetish Nipple Teasers
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CalExotics First Time Fetish Nipple Teasers
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Pros
- incredibly user-friendly
Cons
- chain isn’t long enough for some
Another great option with a chain, these beginner-friendly nipple clamps feature alligator-style clamps (also known as crocodile nipple clamps or bull nose nipple clamps). Like tweezer clamps, these bbs are totally adjustable, except instead of sliding to adjust, you simply twist the integrated screw to set the pressure exerted. Plus, the clamps are coated with rubber tips and attached by a 14-inch sturdy metal chain.
THE REVIEW: “These clamps are very nice,” one person notes. “They are great for beginners, since you can easily adjust the tension to remove some of the pressure. You can’t tighten them too much though, so if you’re looking for clamps that have a lot of squeeze, these ones won’t work (unless maybe you have large nipples). The rubber is comfortable and the chain is great for pulling!”
5. Pipedream Fetish Fantasy Series Nipple Bull Rings
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Pipedream Fetish Fantasy Series Nipple Bull Rings
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Pipedream Fetish Fantasy Series Nipple Bull Rings
Pros
- gentle and lightweight
Cons
- can feel super tight initially
If you’ve always wanted nipple rings but are like, “Mmm, maybe not” at the thought of actually getting your nipples pierced, then you’ll love this set of no-pierce nipple rings. Not only do they give you the illusion of having your nipples pierced, but they also double as a baby nipple clamps perfect for light tugging.
THE REVIEW: “I’m never going to have the guts to actually get a piercing, so these were fun!” writes one tester. “BF loved them, and wearing them around while we were out was super hot. I did have to bend them a little to make them fit comfortably just because of how [tight] they are, but they stay on well and can handle (gentle) tugging/biting/etc.”
6. CalExotics Nipple Play Non-Piercing Nipple Jewelry
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CalExotics Nipple Play Non-Piercing Nipple Jewelry
best nipple lassos
CalExotics Nipple Play Non-Piercing Nipple Jewelry
Pros
- great for those with metal sensitivity
Cons
- won’t work as well on smaller nipples
Newbies to nipple play will also love these crystal-embellished nipple lassos from CalExotics. Simply slip ’em over the peaks of your nipples and adjust the soft, silicone cinch by sliding the silver bead up or down—no pinching or piercing necessary.
THE REVIEW: “My nipples are incredibly sensitive, so these were perfect,” one person explains. “It’s like the perfect combination of nipple clamps and piercings, minus the actual piercing part. The tightness can be easily adjusted, and they can be removed easily when needed. The dangling ‘jewel’ adds both a little weight, as well as a cute uniqueness. Not to mention they can be pulled on for further stimulation, if that’s your thing.”
7. ZALO NAVE Vibrating Nipple Clamps
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ZALO NAVE Vibrating Nipple Clamps
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ZALO NAVE Vibrating Nipple Clamps
Pros
- designed to accommodate a range of nipple sizes
Cons
- definitely not cheap
It may not be cheap, but ZALO’s first-ever nipple toy is well worth the investment for fans of nipple play, promise. Featuring dual motors in both of its tips, these vibrating nipple teasers are made to accommodate a variety of nipple sizes (thanks to the three interchangeable covers that change the width of the nubs) and will surround your nips with eight levels of rumbly, whisper-quiet vibrations. And since these high-tech clamps are compatible with the ZALO Remote Pro App, they can even be controlled from a distance.
8. UTIMI Nipple Clamps Vibrator
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UTIMI Nipple Clamps Vibrator
best remote-control nipple clamps
UTIMI Nipple Clamps Vibrator
Pros
- amazingly effective for the price
Cons
- clamps aren’t adjustable, so may feel too tight
These vibrating nipple clamps may not be high-end, but they def get the job done…plus, you can’t beat that price. Complete with clothespin-style silicone-coated clamps, these bbs let you experience over 20 different vibe and pulse mode combinations with the help of the handy attached remote—just add batteries and you’re good to go!
THE REVIEW: “These are great for beginners,” reads one review. “So simple to use and very comfortable. The clamps are flat and don’t have sharp teeth, and they still stay on for long periods of time. You get a bunch of different vibration modes that all feel good.”
9. LOVENSE Gemini Vibrating Nipple Clamps
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LOVENSE Gemini Vibrating Nipple Clamps
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LOVENSE Gemini Vibrating Nipple Clamps
Pros
- completely adjustable and customizable
Cons
- noisier than some would like
Known as the first-ever app-controlled nipple clamps, these bad boys are seriously smart—and fun. This vibrating set (which is compatible with the LOVENSE app) lets you tease your partner from anywhere in the world by controlling its three vibrational speeds and 10 patterns. You’ll also love how you can adjust the tightness of the clamps through the screws for a comfy (or not-so-comfy) fit.
THE REVIEW: As one person writes, “I don’t tend to have very sensitive nipples, but this changed it. The vibration strength is very high, and the app patterns allow different patterns for each nipple, which I definitely enjoyed. Paired with other toys, it made the whole solo play that little bit more adventurous and a lot more fun, especially hands-free. Would definitely recommend.”
10. Sportsheets Sex & Mischief Feathered Nipple Clamps
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Sportsheets Sex & Mischief Feathered Nipple Clamps
best feather nipple clamps
Sportsheets Sex & Mischief Feathered Nipple Clamps
Pros
- soft and v approachable
Cons
- some wish feathers were dangling rather than stationary
Bring a new dimension to sensation play with these soft, feathered nipple teasers. Featuring rubbed-tipped alligator clamps, these bbs are adjustable, affordable, and just really damn cute.
THE REVIEW: “I love these,” one customer raves. “I’m so glad I got ones that are adjustable, as you can make them as tight or as loose as you’re comfortable with. Also, they look really sexy.”
11. Pipedream Fetish Fantasy Gold Magnetic Clamps
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Pipedream Fetish Fantasy Gold Magnetic Clamps
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Pros
- sleek and easy to use
Cons
- not a great fit for smaller-nippled folks
Now THESE are elegant as heck, no?? Thick, weighty, and sparkly, these golden beauts feature pull-apart magnets that delicately squeeze your nipple for a perfect pinch—and while they may feel a *tad* too snug for folks with smaller nips, they’re a great fit for anyone whose nipples are on the larger side.
THE REVIEW: “They’re definitely not for smaller nipples, but great for larger ones,” notes one tester. “I love the thickness of them, and the weight is nice, too. Lined up across my thick nipples, they pinch enough to turn my nubs purple after wearing for half an hour. The tingling and sensitivity when they come off is as delicious as wearing them around.”
12. CalExotics Boundless Nipple Grips
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CalExotics Boundless Nipple Grips
best 4-point nipple clamps
CalExotics Boundless Nipple Grips
Pros
- allow you to totally customize the fit
Cons
- can be a pain to adjust all the screws
Designed with four fully-adjustable points of tension, a four-point nipple press is a great way to customize how you play. All you have to do is position the four screws around your nipple, then twist the tips to tighten ’em up. Plus, the fun shape of these (and the lil soft-capped tips) make them seem anything but intimidating.
THE REVIEW: “These work great,” one person notes. “They stay in place and you can adjust the pressure as you wish. A bit on the heavy and clumsy side, but the weight can add sensation. If you are into nipples, you will enjoy.”
13. Unbound Nipple & Clit Clamp
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Unbound Nipple & Clit Clamp
best nipple and clitoris clamp set
Unbound Nipple & Clit Clamp
Pros
- lightweight and versatile
Cons
- slides on the clasps can be finicky
Ideal for more advanced folks, this lightweight, multi-chain, gold-plated nipple-and-clit clamp set is simply divine. In addition to being adjustable, each tweezer clamp has silicone caps for comfort—and if a clit clamp sounds a bit too intense, you can also clip the extra clamp to other erogenous zones.
THE REVIEW: According to one review, “I am just starting to experiment with nipple clamps, but I think I found my favorite. Honestly, other clamps looked a little intimidating, but these look like a beautiful piece of jewelry. They’re so easy to customize pressure (especially for a novice), and it’s nice having the versatility to choose whether or not you want to use the clit clamp.”
14. XR Brands Master Series Monarch Noir Nipple Vice
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XR Brands Master Series Monarch Noir Nipple Vice
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XR Brands Master Series Monarch Noir Nipple Vice
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Pros
- really stay in place, no matter your nipple size
Cons
- metal feels too lightweight for some
Right this way, fans of pain and nipple torture. These non-adjustable Japanese clover clamps (also known as butterfly nipple clamps) have smaller points of contact, which means more of a pinch, especially on anyone with larger nipples. And thanks to the inclusion of the 12-and-a-half-inch connector chain, they’re perfect for edge play, orgasm denial, or sadists/masochists, as long as you practice safely, ofc. Which you will. Right, master?
THE REVIEW: “This are my third set of clover clamps, and by far these are the best,” one person raves. “These open wide enough to fit over my large nipples, and unlike the others, they DO NOT slip off. I find that attaching an additional chain for weight and pulling adds awesome pleasure.”
15. UPKO Crown Chain Nipple Clamps
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UPKO Crown Chain Nipple Clamps
best luxury nipple clamps
UPKO Crown Chain Nipple Clamps
Pros
- chic and fun for beginners and experts alike
Cons
- a bit more $$$ than other options
If you’re looking for nipple clamps that double as a piece of jewelry, then feast your eyes on these bbs. Created by luxury pleasure brand UPKO, this royally stunning option features adjustable tweezer-style clamps, a double zinc alloy chain, and delicate beaded weights. Hi, we’re in love.
What are the benefits of nipple clamps?
Why do people use nipple clamps, you ask? As double board certified gynecologist Dr. Monica Grover, DO, MS, tells us, nipple clamps work by restricting the blood flow to the nipple, thus creating a numb-meets-pleasurable-meets-painful feeling. Some people find the stimulation uncomfy or unarousing, while others don’t enjoy or even experience the pain-pleasure sensations associated with BDSM-esque sex. However! Before you think nip stim is just for people who enjoy chains and whips, Grover says anyone who “enjoys a little pain with their pleasure” might be into nipple clamps, so keep an open mind.
Ofc, you’ll want to make sure you actually *enjoy* nipple play before diving into the clamp life. To test it out, ask your partner to try biting, sucking, and massaging your nipples, or give ’em a pull or pinch yourself. While clamps will feel more intense than using your hands, you should get a general idea of the sensation because, as sex educator and Babeland brand manager Lisa Finn explains, “Blood gets trapped in the nipple tissue, making it super sensitive to the touch.” This = a crazy, erotic experience for some…as long as you handle clamps with caution. Speaking of which…
How to use nipple clamps
As with anything sexual, consent is crucial. If one of you isn’t into the whole clamp idea, nix it. There are plenty of other things to try that can stimulate the nipples like kissing, flicking, or pulling. And it’s also totally normal if you don’t like playing with your partner’s nips or having your nipples played with. But if you do decide to utilize clamps, then make sure to establish a safe word (like “pineapple” or “red”) before you start clamping all over. Since clamps can cause a bit of pain, paying extra care and attention to your partner’s needs is crucial.
Before just clamping away, clinical sexologist and cofounder of the Swann Center, Dr. Valerie Poppel, says it’s a good idea to warm up the nipples by kissing, sucking, massaging, or otherwise playing with the area. This helps get them aroused and ready for action. Next, you’ll want to place the “jaws” of the clamp on the nipple or on the areola, depending on what type of sensation you’re looking for. Finn recommends starting with the clamps at the back of the nipple (against the areola), since pinching the tip of your nipple right out the gate may be too painful at first.
Also, despite the name, you never want to just suddenly clamp the jaws shut. “Determine where you want the pressure to be, then slowly close the clamp,” Queen explains. Once it’s on, you can always adjust the tension accordingly. You can also try adding stimulation to your partner’s nipples while the clamps are attached, too. Pro tip: Close the clamp on the nipple while the wearer is breathing in, and let go on the exhale, Poppel says. This helps with that initial zap and gets the blood flow moving immediately.
Aftercare is also important, especially if sexual power dynamics are at play. Rub some ice, lotion, or aloe on your partner’s nipples after clamping, spend some time chatting or cuddling, and soak up those feel-good, post-banging vibes.
How to choose the best nipple clamps
There are several different types of nipple clamps out there, and the type you choose will def depend on your experience level. Adjustable nipple clamps (such as tweezer clamps, alligator clamps, four-point clamps, and nipple lassos) are best for beginners, while non-adjustable clamps (like clothespin clamps, magnetic clamps, and clover clamps) are better suited for more experienced users. A few tips for getting the best bang for your nips:
Consider your nipple size and sensitivity
Start by identifying two things: How big are your nipples? And how much pressure do you enjoy? As Queen explains, “Some clamps cover a wider surface area and might be preferred by people with bigger nipples.” The size of the clamps also affects sensitivity. “Thin or small tips on clamps focus the pressure down to one small spot instead of spreading it out,” she adds.
Find the right weight
Additionally, you’ll want to pay attention to the weight of the toy. Typically, tweezer clamps are best for newbies not only because they’re adjustable, but because they’re nice and lightweight. If you’re just starting out, gravitate toward those before graduating on to something with more oomph. On the other end of the spectrum, Poppel says heavier clamps can add a pleasurable tugging sensation. If you’re more experienced (or like a lil extra *ouch*), try something with a thicker chain or additional weight for some added stimulation.
Check out the material
As with anything you plan on using in an intimate way, make sure the materials used won’t irritate your skin, especially if you have any allergies. The best nipple clamps tend to be made with nickel-free metal and included silicone- or PVC-coated tips, which will save your delicate nips from scratches or infection.
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Corinne Sullivan is an Editor at Cosmopolitan, where she covers a variety of beats, including lifestyle, entertainment, relationships, shopping, and more. She can tell you everything you need to know about the love lives of A-listers, the coziest bedsheets, and the sex toys actually worth your $$$. She is also the author of the 2018 novel Indecent. Follow her on Instagram for cute pics of her pup and bébé.
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