If you’re looking for a fun new addition to your sex life, vibrating panties are *it,* seriously. If you’re new to the concept, here’s the deal: most panty vibrators fasten into the wearer’s undies, and then the vibration speed and tempo are controlled via a remote or an app. So basically, you can have some fun by handing the controls over to a partner and letting them make you squirm (or, you know, vice versa). But you could def also find a place for vibrating panties in your masturbation routine. Really, the only limit is your imagination.
Like any other sex toy, there are a ton of options for vibrating panties! Some of them come with panties that have a pocket to hold a bullet vibrator against your clit, others have a magnetic closure to make sure the vibe stays in place, and some actually stimulate you internally as well as externally. So no matter how you want to get down, there’s definitely a pair of vibrating panties that’ll do it for you.
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If you’ll be using the vibrating panties with a partner, Marla Renee Stewart, MA, sexpert at the adult wellness brand Lovers, suggests playing a game where your partner watches you from a distance and controls the settings on your vibrator. (This is 🔥 hot 🔥 at something like a dinner party or event.) A vibrator with a remote (most vibrating panties have them at this point) can come in clutch here, as you and your boo can keep it sexy from far away.
Another bonus of panty vibes is their versatility—you certainly don’t have to limit play with these toys to just being used with undies. These vibrators can also double as external couples’ toys when you hold the vibrator against your vulva or nipples during partnered penetrative sex, Stewart explains.
1. Best Panty Vibe That Works with Smartwatches
The blueMotion Nex1 second gen comes with a blue lace thong (one size fits most) and a small vibrator with four patterns. You can download the app on your smartwatch or phone and control the settings from there, which is oh-so-convenient for both solo and partnered play.
2. Best Boxer-Style Vibrating Panties
Not all vibrating panties have to be uber-frilly and femme. These boxers have not one but two hidden pockets for vibrators. And while they’re originally designed for strap-on play, there’s no reason why you can’t skip the strap-on and use them as a more gender-neutral vibrating undie. You’ll have to BYOV (bring your own vibe), but did we mention there are two pockets to choose from?
3. Best Rechargeable Panty Vibe with Matching Ribbon-Tie Panties
Fancy, fancy! This contoured rechargeable vibrator comes with a ribbon-tie pair of panties for ~luxe~ vibrations. The undies come with a special pocket you can slide the vibrator into and control via remote. A two-hour charge gets you two hours of play, and the remote works up to 26 feet away. There are also eight speeds and 12 patterns, so your partner will have way more options to play with than just the usual “more vibration” or “less vibration.”
4. Best Magnetic Panty Vibrator
“This is one of my absolute favorite toys to slip into any panty,” sex educator J. Sànchez, MSW, MEd says. “I love how you can sync it to the We-Connect app. For partner play, it has a slip-proof magnet that keeps it in place, so I am not having to adjust it. It is super discreet, and stays charged for two hours—who doesn’t love a good battery life?”
5. Best Wearable Butterfly Vibrator
While it might not look like your normal pair of undies, this butterfly contraption is still wearable, so I’m including it anyways! You hook your legs through each of the elastics, and the lil’ butterfly should sit directly over your clitoris. Because it’s not tethered to the bottom patch of fabric on a pair of panties, you could even wear these during sex, like crotchless vibrating panties.
6. Best Rabbit Panty Vibrator
Who knew a panty vibrator could also double as a classic rabbit? This tiny vibe is small enough to fit inside any panty but has rabbit ears that jut out at the tip to pointedly stimulate the clit. It doesn’t come with a remote, but it does feature 12 vibrational patterns and is rechargeable and completely waterproof.
7. Best Rechargeable Panty Vibrator
This petal-looking vibrator might be small, but it packs a serious punch. Designed to slip discreetly into your underwear of choice, this is pretty much the ideal toy for incognito play. It’s also got a thoughtfully designed notch to hug your clit.
8. Best Vibrator That Bumps Along to Music
This curved boat-looking vibe tucks inside the included panties and can be controlled with a remote from up to 20 feet away. “What attracted me to buying this vibrator is the club mode feature,” Sànchez shares. “As a woman who enjoys going out on the weekends, I wanted to see if it would sync to loud music and vibrate. It absolutely did and makes for some fun, eventful experiences. Take note, the panties are one-size fits most and as a size 14 woman, I am close to having to invest in larger panties.”
9. Best App-Controlled Panty Vibe
Live out your fantasies with this discreet panty vibrator that can be controlled by a partner using the accompanying app. It features 11 powerful vibrating modes, and is made with super-soft body-safe silicone.
10. Best Powerful Panty Vibe That You Can Use with Any Smartwatch Band
This vibe is fully waterproof, rechargeable, has seven levels of super-quiet vibration, and five patterns to choose from. It doesn’t come with underwear, but it does have a magnet to help keep it attached to the undergarments of your choosing. The remote has a range of up to 60 feet and looks really, really similar to an Apple Watch or FitBit, making it one of the better “hidden in plain sight” remotes we’ve seen so far. You can even pop the remote out of the band and swap for any interchangeable Apple Watch or smartwatch band if you wanna change up the look.
11. Best Wearable Bullet Vibrator
If you wanna play in public, you’re limited to clunky remotes that very much look like remotes, or an app, which might be even more obvious given how nosy some people can be in public. But with this vibrating panty’s inconspicuous ring remote, no one will know what’s up. You or your partner can simply turn the ring so it’s facing palm-side in and control the buzz that way.
12. Best Magnetically Locking Vibrator Set
The Lock-N-Play rechargeable vibrator can be universally attached to any underwear, so you can turn your fanciest pair of undies into a pair of vibrating fancy undies. The two-piece kit comes with a remote control and 12-function vibrator, specially designed to hit your clitoris at all the right angles. The contoured design has ridges for more stimulation, and magnetic wings (like a maxi pad) help attach the device to any pair of underwear.
13. Best Panty Vibrator for Internal and External Stimulation
If you thought all panty vibrators were clit vibes, think again. This wearable vibe was designed to be worn hands-free in panties, and is shaped to stimulate all your internal hot spots. It’s remote controlled, comes with 12 vibration modes, and provides 45 minutes of play time. Plus, it’s shaped like a butterfly. V cute.
14. Best Discreet Panty Vibrator
This waterproof, rechargeable vibrator tucks into your panties and includes a matching remote. It’s rechargeable and holds up to 80 minutes of play, and we love that the silicone is textured for max stimulation.
15. Best Panty Vibrator for Long-Distance Relationships
Perfect for long-distance couples or those who are into a little ~voyeurism~, this panty vibe from Satisfyer can be controlled through the Satisfyer Connect App, meaning your partner can control your sensations from miles away, or discreetly from their phone or Apple Watch. Kinky!
16. Best Panty Vibe + Lingerie
We love that these panties are like, actually cute and usable in addition to being compatible with this powerful vibrator. With 12 different vibration patterns, this vibe is tiny but mighty and comes in a slightly curved shape to adjust to your body.
17. Best Panty Vibe Under $50
“This is my current favorite,” says educator and sexologist Goody Howard, MSW, MPH. “It’s a remote control bullet that can be inserted into the vagina or nestled into the crotch pouch of a pair of comfy undies. I prefer panty inserts to traditional vibrating panties because they can fit a wider range of body sizes. The remote control is a wristband, not a regular-looking remote, which makes for even more discreet playtime.”
18. Best Panty Vibrator on Amazon
With nine vibration settings to select from, you’re sure to find a speed that works for you. And thanks to the handy, egg-shaped remote, it can be operated from about 30 feet away, making sexy time with a partner that much more exhilarating. Plus, it’s super quiet, so you can climb to new orgasmic heights without causing a scene. (I mean, unless you want to recreate that infamous When Harry Met Sally diner moment, which is totally up to you.)
19. Best Crotchless Panty Vibrator Set
While most vibrating panties are designed to fit right under your crotch, this set of vibrating panties is crotchless with full access for penetration with a partner or toy. This panty also has stroker beads to add even more opportunity for sensation play. Since you can swap out the included vibrator, finding a remote-friendly bullet vibrator shouldn’t be too hard. We suggest this one for a rechargeable bullet and this battery-operated one if you’re on a budget.
20. Best Eco-Friendly Panty Vibrator
This waterproof, rechargeable, and seven-function panty vibe is perfect for popping into the above boxers or any set of panties currently stashed in your intimates drawer. The shape of the device is designed to fit super discreetly inside your undies while still targeting your clitoris for stimulation.
21. Best Wearable Vibrating Dildo
Looking for some more internal stimulation? This set features a vibrating shaft that goes inside the wearer for extra stim. Plus, there are seven vibration modes so you’ll never run out of pleasure.
Trying vibrating panties for the first time? Let’s break down everything you need to know.
When you’re new to the whole vibrating panties party, it can be a bit overwhelming knowing where to start, especially with so many options now available. Do you go with an attachment or with something that’s built-in? Should you try it out solo before bringing in a partner? And which settings are best to get the ~vibes~ going, anyway? Sex educator J. Sànchez, MSW, MEd, says that as with any sex toy, experimentation—and patience!—are key to ensuring you get the most bang for your buck (pun intended).
“If you are a first-timer, allow yourself to explore this experience with zero expectations,” Sànchez says. “Every body and every vulva is different, so allow yourself to be present in the moment and have your sexual exploration lenses on. Pay attention to how your body reacts to the vibrations and process what is working for your body and vulva and what is not.”
And don’t forget to do your research. With no shortage of vibrating panties to choose from, it’s important to tune into what you’re hoping to get out of your new toy.
“Do a self check-in before purchasing by assessing how you experience pleasure,” Sànchez suggests. “A great question to ask yourself first is, ‘Do I experience orgasm by clitoral or internal stimulation?’ This will provide you guidance on which panties to invest in.”
When you’ve chosen a pair (or two!), set aside time for a few private rounds at home in a space that’s safe and private, and possibly with your partner(s) if that feels comfortable. And, hey, at the end of the day, the number-one important thing to keep in mind: This is supposed to be fun!
So check out our favorite picks above—and remember, some of these come with special underwear (usually designed with a pocket for holding the vibrator), and others don’t require specialty undies. So, if you’re looking for a bonus-gift idea, pairing the underwear-not-included vibes with fancy lingerie would definitely make for a very thoughtful surprise.


Mekita Rivas is a freelance journalist based in Washington, D.C. She frequently covers the intersections of culture, identity, and style. In addition to Women’s Health, her writing has been published in The New York Times, Vogue, Cosmopolitan, Harper’s BAZAAR, and others.

Veronica Lopez is the sex and relationships editor at Cosmopolitan, where she covers and edits stories about single life, dating, relationships, sex, identity, and more. Previously, she was the sex and dating editor at Elite Daily. Originally from Venezuela, she grew up in Miami and is now based in Brooklyn. Follow her on Instagram here and on Twitter here.